I've not used vista yet because I cant be bothered with the driver updates etc.. but the procedure should be the same.... ask both yours and hers service providers to give you static ip adresses for your broad band connections (should be free and done there and then but essential for this to work) assuming you have a router at each end of the connection (best for security) all you need to do is configure each one to have the correct ip and pass word of the other router, (so each one will know who is trying to connect to it securely) and then use microsoft terminal services client by typing mstsc in your 'start' then 'run' and connect to the ip address of her machine and you will connect to her pc... easy,.. you dont need any extra software, but you must have you routers configured correctly. Its a secure connection so it cant be hacked, and you will have control of her machine albeit a little more slowly than if it was your own, but you will see her desktop on your pc and will be able to work from there