If the father thinks one little bump In a car is going to ruin his daughters life, then he needs to wise up a bit. Life throws you lots of problems, some self inflicted, others out of the blue, but the rest of us just get on and deal with it.
This will teach her that you have to be accountable for your actions, and put right your mistakes. A useful lesson in life.
You gave them the easy way out, and the father rejected it. So you could say he has ruined his own daughters life.
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